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Total Cost? Nadda. Zip. Zelch. With the millions...and
millions...and yes, millions of singles now getting hip into the Internet
dating scene, you'll surely hook up in a very short period of time, but you
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The ultra hot tips to being successful can be broken down in
three basic steps. Follow them closely, and you WILL succeed! How do I know? I
ran a professional Online Matchmaking business for two years. We basically
wrote and placed "very creative" personals all over the Web for busy
professional clients who didn't have the time/or know how to deal with it. We
also created personal websites for these clients with a biography, photo's and
witty banter regarding who and what they seeked. All the client had to do was
open his or her email, and boom! There were singles from all over wanting to
know more about them. It was a smashing success! We managed to hook up 99% of
our clients within a months time. The business got so large, so quick, that it
became overwhelming. I halted that biz because for the time spent, it was more
lucrative to create e-commerce websites, and a lot less stressful! We would
have over 100 inquires to our services daily! And we were only a four person
operation. Yes, we kept raising the prices, but they kept coming! I simply
couldn't hire enough staff to keep up with the work load. Burn out factor 101.
But, that's how I knew how popular online dating was going to be. 3 years and
almost 100 websites later, here we are! The largest dating, and "totally free"
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Creating Your Online Profile - First Impression
Your first impression... your connection to millions off
potential lovers, soulmate or spouses. Wow, I've seen hundreds and hundreds,
and the majority of them, well, SUCK! To be totally unbiased, I'm going to grab
a personal from one of our sites, and paste it right here. I swear, this will
be the only one I grab, making it a complelety random selection. Be right
back....
Here it is, so help me!
Headline: looking for true love Profile ad: i live in
fayetteville,nc,i am seperated, divorce pending,i want a caring and honest
woman not afraid of love or commitment
TaDa! That's it! Can you believe that? And I bet he wonders
why he nevers gets a response? Sheesh... Take The Time to create and
craft a funny, witty, and somewhat mysterious profile and for goodness sakes, Spell
Check! You must set yourself apart or you'll never any luck. The
most "important" thing is to use proper spelling and syntax when responding to
ads. You only have the one first chance to make a good impression. Most folks
do not like sloppy letters. USE YOUR SPELL CHECK for every outgoing message!
One of the reasons I use Love mail for my clients is because it has a good
spell check feature. It only takes a minute, yet can make all the difference.
Also, people are visual creatures. Use the stationery feature as well. Give
your email some color-you have many to choose from. Be creative! Let them
remember you as the cute single that had cute little hearts in his email! Stand
out from all the rest, and always come across as a nice human being!
Now, let's look at a couple personal ads we
wrote for our clients:
Gemini Juggler
Are you a liberal or conservative? A laugher or cryer? A licker or biter? I'm
both. Always both and yet neither. I'm an atheistic lover of many gods. . . a
sophisticate with toys in my bathtub . . . a genuine evil twin who loves to
perform missions of mercy. Honey, I always prefer paper and plastic. In fact,
there are so many sides to me that I often find I'm beside myself. Think you
can handle having five lovers in one? Being monogamous with me is just like
being totally promiscuous.
Zodiac Killer
We Virgos rarely brag--except when there's something we want. And I want you.
So I'm going to tell you what my astrologer said, which is that we Virgos are
the smartest lovers and sexiest geniuses in the entire zodiac. Now tell me
about yourself. Are you a frequent bather with strawberry breath and jet
pilot's eyes? Are you equally at home in silk and grunge, equally knowledgeable
about El Greco and L7? Do you have a slow hand but fast fingers? Know lots of
short cuts but have a long attention span? Then get over here now. I want to
bite you with my wit
Power Play
I've got the heart of a mountain-climber and the mind of an entrepreneur.
You're a timeless beauty who thinks the most fun thing that two people can have
together is to build things from the ground up. How about it: Want to work and
play together? Want to share the spiritual joys of powerwalking, powershopping
and powermongering? Let's gaze at the bottom line by day and oil up each
other's charisma by night. Please: no dice-rollers, white liars, or compulsive
jaywalkers. Must be willing to lose at chess.
Jungle Love
Tasmanian devil seeks sleek fox or wily coyote for interspecies communion. It's
a jungle out there, baybee. But I know some great trails, and I ain't afraid of
the deep, dark stuff. Put your little paw in mine and together we'll wade the
creeks and scale the cliffs amidst swinging on the vines of destiny. Are you
ready to have even more fun than merely being in love? Two grunts mean "yes,
dear." Two grunts and a howl mean "yes, dear, NOW!" *Schwing*
So, Which would you pick? The first example? Or one of the
above. Nuff said.
You've made the decision to improve your love life, to seek romance
and companionship among the millions of single women online who are looking for
just the same... Well, don't expect your soulmate to just come knocking down
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Writing words in your profile
Choose your wording very conscientiously, and read it back
several times. The words you choose in your first contact can be crucial and
make all the difference as too geeting a reply of not. Never send a blank
message with only a link to your profile, odds are she won't check it out. Tell
her why you decided to write, what caught your eye, why this time it's special.
Don't write a standard generic response that you send to 100 other ladies.
Another important factor to weigh when writing a good
personal ad is the amount of of specific information you should include. It is
clearly best to avoid posting specific personal information about yourself like
addresses, phone numbers etc., but usually other specifics, as to your
occupation, hobbies, interests, and background, are not only ok, but will
greatly increase your chance of piquing the curiosity of a like minded single
man or woman.
So what are the keys to writing a successful personal ad ?
Be Honest - Don't Brag - Mind Your Cyber-Manners
Not many savvy singles will believe something along the
lines of "Harvard educated multimillionaire seeking somebody, anybody, to
shower with gifts and attention." If you write such a personal ad you are
setting yourself up for failure, as few will think of you as honest. Think
about it: honesty is one of the first traits that any single man or woman
mentions when describing someone with whom they wish to share friendship, a
deeper relationship, and long lasting love. So don't shoot yourself in the foot
from the very start.
In your personal ad, write honestly about who you are, but
just as importantly, write about the single woman or man you seek. Include all
those characteristics you value in a partner, as well as more pragmatic
criteria, like geographic location, whether he or she smokes, has children,
etc. In short, make it possible for those that fit your criteria to be able to
say "that's me, and that's what I want too!" when they see your posted personal
ad. Do not set up any possible relationship for failure by lying from the
beginning. Any self-respecting single will pack his or her digital bags and
move on, sooner or later.
Write an attention-grabbing headline, stressing positive
facts contained in your personal ad. The first step in capturing someone's
imagination lies in capturing their attention, and for this, you need a clear
and concise statement setting yourself apart from the crowd. Use wit here, and
stress a quality which you believe singles would find most appealing. What can
you say about yourself in a single sentence which makes you irresistible to the
opposite sex?
Be specific about who you're looking for too: if you know
your soulmate is a Buddhist, say so. If you are adamant about remaining
childless, convey that too. State your willingness to travel. The woman in
Paris may not respond when she notes you live in Rio, if you fail to mention
that geographic location is no barrier. The man in White Plains may skip your
personal ad if he thinks that you're only seeking a friend to chat online, when
you're looking for more, but your ad doesn't say so. What is your personal
mantra ? Share it. The man or woman who understands and appreciates it best, is
the one who will reply.
Do not underestimate the power of a good first impression:
write your personal ad so that it is easy to understand, articulate, and to the
point; avoid making grmmar and spelling mistakes: didn't you just wince when
you saw that one? That is how most people react, and it does not speak well of
the writer. Remember, be honest, be specifc, be positive; these three qualities
will make your personal ad a solid one, and a bit of imagination will make it a
winner that will get you a response!
Perfect your profile and demand consideration. Review how
you described yourself in your own free profile. Have you provided enough
information about yourself? Do your words offer a glimpse into your personality
be it your charisma, wit or good taste? No? Don't delay, update your personal
profile now.
Your Online Photo Image - Picture in your profile
"A Picture is Worth Thousand Words" Learn it, Love it, Live
it! Improve your the quality of your image as much as possible. Does the photo
in your profile present the real you? Did you scan your driver's license? Are
you dressed in grubs? Is your photo off- center, out of focus or so small that
other members really can't see you? Of course your great face in your photo
personal ad will help, but that is only the beginning. Thousands of singles are
advertising themselves with the same dreadful headlines "SWF age 35 125# 5'6"
seeking SWM 35-45 for friendship and possible ltr". That's great, but what does
it say about the writer, besides the fact that she's a single woman looking for
a single man? Nothing that a personal ad doesn't imply by itself. Worst part?
NO PHOTO! They just don't stand a chance without at least on pic in the profile
they create. Even online, it's all about first impression. So smile big and
post a nicely lit photo of yourself. If you don't have an electronic photo, go
borrow a digital camera and take the time to get a good pic. A basic web cam
can cost as little as a nice meal, but does not really take the ideal picture,
but it's better then nothing!
Essential - Uploading Your Pictures - I don't care who you
are, where you're from or What you look like! Upload your photo's (at
least two) so you give an idea of what you look like. There's someone out there
just for you, and if you write an intelligent personal profile, your pics don't
matter that mush. It only matters that you DO have a picture to relate to the
words.
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Reading personals to understand her
More distinctively, reading between the lines. What people
write about themselves is key to understanding their personality and what they
seek. Mentioning something you read in her profile is flattering and can earn
you big brownie points because she'll know you're referring specifically to
her. Skip reading the profile, and your would-be match will sense your lack of
attention to detail, and you'll be wasting your time.
Sending messages to the single girls
Remember to make each message special and mention something
specific in her profile. Generic, form-letter or "canned" emails stand out and
the single gals can spot them a mile away. You'll just get a laff and trash...
What is a canned email? A paragraph or two of text (typically about the sender
only) copied, pasted and delivered to member after member after member. When
searching for a match, always be personal and craft your message to the
individual. This will make you stand out and increase your chances of getting a
reply. Want to see an example of a reply to a females personal ad that would
get a response every time?
Greetings to you, Mi'Lady. The essence of that dazzling
smile in your profile compells me to ponder what is it you seek, and why?
Perhaps you may grace me with your answer? Helplessly, I find myself wishing to
offer you some insight about who I am, and how I view our world. I'd be
delighted to have you reply, but realize your box must be full of melted hearts
as I.
Hope however, is not a bad thing. :-)
Cordially yours,
yourname
Of course, you could write a typical reply:
Wow! What a babe! Write me back so we can hook
up!
Be Polite - Be A Gentlemen
Ask and you shall receive. Finally, close your anonymous message by
specifically requesting a response. Thank her for her time and explain that
you'd like to hear back - whether or not there's chemistry. Often the simple
fear of rejection stops someone from responding; let them know your world won't
end without them, and they'll feel better about sending a reply. All messaging
is free after all, so don't let nothing but fear hold you back!
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